Alexa Gelles

EMDR Counselling

EMDR Teletherapy & In-Person Therapy offered in Vancouver, B.C.

Certified EMDR Therapy: Solution-based therapy for proven, lasting results.











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If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or like past experiences are holding you back, EMDR therapy might be the breakthrough you need.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a proven therapy designed to help you release the emotional blocks that are preventing you from moving forward.


Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, relationship issues, grief, or trauma, EMDR works by addressing the root cause of these challenges and rewiring the way your brain processes emotions. It’s a powerful tool for anyone ready to make lasting change.



How EMDR Therapy Works

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We’ll start by understanding your challenges, setting goals, and identifying the root causes.




Identifying the Problem

Using back-and-forth eye movements, we’ll help your brain process and release trapped emotions.

Processing with Eye Movements

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This process helps you rewire the neural connections in your brain, releasing what’s blocking you from emotional freedom.

Rewiring Your Brain

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We’ll ensure the changes last, helping you integrate your healing into everyday life.

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Integration

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Release Emotional Blocks: Let go of past trauma, anxiety, or grief that’s holding you back.

Improve Relationships: Heal from past hurts to create stronger, healthier connections with others.

Increase Self-Confidence: Break free from negative beliefs and improve your self-esteem.

Enjoy Peace of Mind: Gain emotional freedom and a greater sense of well-being.

Why Choose EMDR Therapy?

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EMDR Therapy Is Right for You If…

You’re struggling with unresolved trauma, grief, or past relationships.

You experience recurring anxiety or insecurity in your relationships, unsure of your partner’s feelings or fearing they’ll leave.

You often question your ability to make the right relationship choices, leading to low self-confidence and shallow connections.

You have difficulty setting boundaries, leaving you feeling drained, overwhelmed, or taken for granted.

You notice repeating unhealthy patterns in your relationships, such as fear of abandonment, pushing people away, or staying in toxic dynamics.

Unresolved grief from past breakups, loss, or betrayal is preventing you from fully healing and moving forward.

You face challenges with intimacy, including low libido, emotional shutdown, or difficulty connecting sexually with your partner.

My Approach:

Results You Can Count On: I’m all about delivering real, lasting change with proven methods that create meaningful results and stronger, healthier relationships.

Walk the Talk: I’m always working on myself, which is why I only use techniques I’ve personally seen work. You won’t get anything from me that I haven’t experienced or believe in.

Tailored Support: No person or relationship is the same. I offer personalized support for individuals and couples, meeting you where you are on your journey.

Here for You Every Step of the Way: You’re the expert on your life and relationship, and I’m here to support and guide you through the process. Together, we’ll create the change you want and build the fulfilling relationship you deserve.


What if I told you it doesn’t have to be this way? 

Imagine truly enjoying every part of your life and feeling at peace with yourself. 

I get it—if past therapy hasn’t given you the results you’ve hoped for, you might be feeling uncertain.

That’s exactly why EMDR is different.

EMDR goes beyond traditional therapy. It addresses the root cause of what’s been holding you back, helping you release those deep-seated beliefs, emotions, and physical sensations that are keeping you stuck.

Through simple, back-and-forth eye movements, EMDR works with your nervous system to help clear out the emotional and physical tension that’s been trapped.

This process rewires neural connections in your brain, allowing your body to finally release what’s been blocking you from moving forward.

READ MORE ABOUT EMDR HERE.






“Working with Alexa was a pivotal point in my healing”

Her EMDR skills helped me move through family trauma and taught my nervous system how to feel safer. I’m so grateful for her help and highly recommend her to anyone struggling with trauma.

— GB

Imagine This...

Feeling secure in yourself and your relationships

No longer second-guessing your choices

Setting healthy boundaries and honouring your needs

Breaking free from unhealthy patterns

Enjoying fulfilling intimacy

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Ready to get started?

Follow these 3 simple steps.

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Once you book your first in-person or virtual session, you’ll receive a confidential client intake form that you can complete virtually.

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In our first session we will explore your challenges and create a personalized plan to help you reach your goals.

Book your first appointment or a free 15-minute consultation via our online calendar. If you have questions or need assistance with booking, reach out to us through the contact form.






What’s the difference between Relationship Counselling and EMDR Counselling?

EMDR is a specialized therapy that can address relationship challenges and a range of other issues, such as low self-esteem, stress, anxiety, and grief. It’s often integrated with relationship counseling to support both healing and personal growth.






EMDR Counselling FAQs

Do you accept health insurance?

As a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC#13309) my services are covered by a number of extended health benefit plans. Please consult with your service provider to determine the type of coverage you have. Clients are responsible for paying for sessions and then submitting their claim to their insurance provider. On request, a receipt will be provided for you to submit for reimbursement.

How many sessions will I need?

It’s hard to predict exactly how many EMDR sessions you'll need, as everyone heals at their own pace. While EMDR can be quicker than traditional therapy, some may need just a few sessions, while others may require up to 6 months for lasting change.







Are there any risks to counselling?

While counselling can be an excellent source of support it’s normal to experience stronger than usual emotions when exploring difficult topics and trying out new behaviours. If you feel uncomfortable with the interventions I suggest or with the pace, know that we can adjust things as needed.

Can EMDR be done virtually?

Absolutely! EMDR works just as effectively in online sessions. We use techniques like audio, tapping, or eye movements through the screen, allowing you to experience the same benefits from the comfort of your home.

Can I use EMDR alongside individual counselling?

I offer 50 and 75 minute EMDR sessions. Longer sessions are typically recommended for EMDR.

How long are EMDR sessions?

Yes, I typically integrate EMDR with individual sessions to complement the work we're doing together. This combination can speed up progress, making lasting changes at a deeper level.







How is EMDR used in Relationship Counselling?

In relationship counselling, EMDR helps romantic partners process past issues impacting their relationship, such as anxiety, grief, and intimacy barriers. It can reduce emotional triggers and help partners respond with greater thoughtfulness and empathy.






The A’s to Your Q’s

Not necessarily! While EMDR is often used for trauma, it's also effective for any stuck patterns or emotions that are getting in the way of your progress—whether they’re related to past events or current struggles.


Do I need to have experienced trauma or recall traumatic memories for EMDR to be effective?

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