Alexa Gelles

EMDR Counselling

EMDR Teletherapy & In-Person Therapy offered in Vancouver, B.C.

Experience Lasting Change with EMDR Therapy

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You’re here because you feel stuck
& overwhelmed. 

You’ve tried to work through your issues, but no matter what you’ve tried, it feels like progress has been slow—or nonexistent.

You’ve heard good things about EMDR, and you’re ready to make real, lasting changes.

You want to move past whatever's holding you back and finally see real changes in your life.

Do any of these sound like you?

EMDR Counselling may be right for you if…

Relationship Anxiety or Insecurity – You constantly worry about your relationship, feeling uncertain about your partner’s feelings or fearing they’ll leave, leaving you stuck in a cycle of anxiety.

Low Confidence or Self-Doubt – You often question your ability to make the right relationship choices, leading to uncertainty and impacting the quality and depth of your connections.

Difficulty Setting Boundaries – You find it challenging to set clear boundaries in your relationships, leading to feelings of being drained, overwhelmed, or taken for granted.

Unhealthy Relationship Patterns – You notice repeating, unhealthy cycles in your relationships—whether it's fear of abandonment, pushing people away, or staying in toxic dynamics—that keep you from experiencing secure connections.

Grief from Past Relationships – Unresolved grief from past relationships, whether from a breakup, loss, or betrayal, is holding you back from fully healing and moving forward in your current relationships.

Sexual Issues and Disconnect – You may experience low libido, emotional shutdown, or difficulty connecting intimately with your partner, preventing you from experiencing fulfilling, connected sex.

Let go of overwhelm, break free from feeling stuck, and create lasting change.








What if I told you it doesn’t have to be this way? 

Imagine truly enjoying every part of your life and feeling at peace with yourself. 

I get it—if past therapy hasn’t given you the results you’ve hoped for, you might be feeling uncertain.

That’s exactly why EMDR is different.

EMDR goes beyond traditional therapy. It addresses the root cause of what’s been holding you back, helping you release those deep-seated beliefs, emotions, and physical sensations that are keeping you stuck.

Through simple, back-and-forth eye movements, EMDR works with your nervous system to help clear out the emotional and physical tension that’s been trapped.

This process rewires neural connections in your brain, allowing your body to finally release what’s been blocking you from moving forward.

READ MORE ABOUT EMDR HERE.






Picture this...

Feeling More Secure in Yourself and Your Relationships

No Longer Second-Guessing choices and valuing your worth

Being Able to Set Healthy Boundaries and Honour Your Needs

Breaking Unhealthy Patterns to have healthy and fulfilling relationships

Healing Sexual Issues and Fully Enjoying Sex and Intimacy

i'm ready

How We’ll Work Together

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We begin by understanding the challenges you're facing and what you want to achieve. Together, we'll explore your current issues and set clear goals for your therapy.





Step 1: set the stage

Next, we’ll dive into identifying recurring patterns in your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and trace these patterns back to their root causes. This helps us pinpoint the areas that need attention.

Step 2: identify patterns

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Before we begin processing, we'll ensure you feel safe and grounded with practical tools that help you manage overwhelming feelings, making the process more comfortable and effective.

Step 3: build safety

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Once we’ve identified the key targets, we’ll use EMDR’s back-and-forth eye movements to help your brain process and release stuck emotions, beliefs, and sensations, allowing for deep healing.

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Step 4: process with EMDR

After processing, we'll integrate the changes to ensure symptoms no longer cause issues. You’ll also gain tools to apply your new skills and insights in daily life, supporting continued growth outside of therapy.







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Step 5: integrate change

My Approach:

Results You Can Count On: I’m all about delivering real, lasting change with proven methods that create meaningful results and stronger, healthier relationships.

Walking the Talk: I’m always working on myself, which is why I only use techniques I’ve personally seen work. You won’t get anything from me that I haven’t experienced or believe in.

Tailored Support: No person or relationship is the same. I offer personalized support for individuals and couples, meeting you where you are on your journey.

Here for You Every Step of the Way: You’re the expert on your life and relationship, and I’m here to support and guide you through the process. Together, we’ll create the change you want and build the fulfilling relationship you deserve.


Ready to get started?

Follow these 3 simple steps.

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Once you book your first in-person or virtual session, you’ll receive a confidential client intake form that you can complete virtually.

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In our first session we will explore your challenges and create a personalized plan to help you reach your goals.

Book your first appointment or a free 15-minute consultation via our online calendar. If you have questions or need assistance with booking, reach out to us through the contact form.






What’s the difference between Relationship Counselling and EMDR Counselling?

EMDR is a specialized therapy that can address relationship challenges and a range of other issues, such as low self-esteem, stress, anxiety, and grief. It’s often integrated with relationship counseling to support both healing and personal growth.






EMDR Counselling FAQs

Do you accept health insurance?

As a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC#13309) my services are covered by a number of extended health benefit plans. Please consult with your service provider to determine the type of coverage you have. Clients are responsible for paying for sessions and then submitting their claim to their insurance provider. On request, a receipt will be provided for you to submit for reimbursement.

How many sessions will I need?

It’s hard to predict exactly how many EMDR sessions you'll need, as everyone heals at their own pace. While EMDR can be quicker than traditional therapy, some may need just a few sessions, while others may require up to 6 months for lasting change.







Are there any risks to counselling?

While counselling can be an excellent source of support it’s normal to experience stronger than usual emotions when exploring difficult topics and trying out new behaviours. If you feel uncomfortable with the interventions I suggest or with the pace, know that we can adjust things as needed.

Can EMDR be done virtually?

Absolutely! EMDR works just as effectively in online sessions. We use techniques like audio, tapping, or eye movements through the screen, allowing you to experience the same benefits from the comfort of your home.

Can I use EMDR alongside individual counselling?

I offer 50 and 75 minute EMDR sessions. Longer sessions are typically recommended for EMDR.

How long are EMDR sessions?

Yes, I typically integrate EMDR with individual sessions to complement the work we're doing together. This combination can speed up progress, making lasting changes at a deeper level.







How is EMDR used in Relationship Counselling?

In relationship counselling, EMDR helps romantic partners process past issues impacting their relationship, such as anxiety, grief, and intimacy barriers. It can reduce emotional triggers and help partners respond with greater thoughtfulness and empathy.






The A’s to Your Q’s

Not necessarily! While EMDR is often used for trauma, it's also effective for any stuck patterns or emotions that are getting in the way of your progress—whether they’re related to past events or current struggles.


Do I need to have experienced trauma or recall traumatic memories for EMDR to be effective?

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