function initPage(){ }

Alexa Gelles

Individual Counselling

Teletherapy & In-Person Therapy for Individuals in Vancouver, B.C.

BOOK a call

Relationship Focused Counselling
for Individuals

Real talk:

Maybe you're stuck in draining arguments, causing you to overthink and lose sleep. These issues affect not only your home life but your work and well-being.

Tired of constantly questioning your relationship and feeling low about yourself? Individual counselling can help you gain clarity, confidence, and a deeper understanding of your needs and desires.

Navigating relationships and learning to communicate effectively can be tough.

The good news? Relationships don’t need to be so hard.

Relationship Counselling is right for you if:








  • You keep getting stuck in the same frustrating patterns in your relationships

  • You often feel anxious, insecure, or unsure about where you stand

  • You have a hard time setting boundaries or speaking up for what you need

  • Relationship struggles leave you questioning your worth or feeling less confident

  • You're going through a breakup or finding it hard to move forward

I'm here to help you figure out what's going wrong in your life and relationships, make your experiences feel okay, and support you in dealing with past baggage that is creating problems.

My goal is to help you feel confident in yourself and in your abillity to build healthy relationships.

book a free consult
















In fact, they can be enjoyable and a space for real healing and growth!






You’re worth ALL of this and so much more!

If you’re reading this and thinking, "OMG, yes, this is exactly what I need," then book a free consultation!

With Relationship Therapy, you'll...








  • Recognize and break the frustrating patterns that keep holding you back

  • Get clear on what you need and ask for it with confidence—without guilt or self-doubt.

  • Set boundaries that protect your well-being and feel good to you

  • Manage anxiety and handle triggers without letting them take over

  • Show up as your best self while staying true to who you are

I promise I'm not just be another counsellor who was nice to talk to but didn’t get you results.

At Alexa Gelles Counselling, you’ll not only understand your problems and have more compassion for yourself, but will work through your issues so they no longer have the same control over you.

book a free consult

How It Works

FIRST

Book your first appointment or a free 15-minute consultation via our online calendar. If you have questions or need assistance with booking, reach out to us through the contact form.






second

You’ll receive a confidential client intake form that you can complete virtually before your first virtual or in-person counselling session.

THIRD

In our first session, we’ll explore your challenges and create a personalized plan to help you achieve the relationships you’ve been dreaming of.


Ready to get started? Follow these 3 simple steps.

My Approach:

Results You Can Count On: I’m all about delivering real, lasting change with proven methods that create meaningful results and stronger, healthier relationships.

Walking the Talk: I’m always working on myself, which is why I only use techniques I’ve personally seen work. You won’t get anything from me that I haven’t experienced or believe in.

Tailored Support: No person or relationship is the same. I offer personalized support for individuals and couples, meeting you where you are on your journey.

Here for You Every Step of the Way: You’re the expert on your life and relationship, and I’m here to support and guide you through the process. Together, we’ll create the change you want and build the fulfilling relationship you deserve.


“We have greater confidence in discussing the things that really matter in our relationship.”
-G&P

It made us reflect on our styles of communication, and brought about helpful discussions to improve our relationship. It gave us great tips to repair from our blips and move on from them more easily. It even brought on some laughs. By better understanding our differences, we were able to work through them. Thank you Alexa for planting the seeds for a closer connection

What’s the difference between Relationship Counselling and Couples Counselling?

Relationship Counselling FAQs

How much do Relationship Counselling sessions cost?

Individual sessions start at $160 (plus GST) per 50-minute session. Payments can be made by credit card or e-transfer. Note: Rates will increase starting January 1, 2025.

How many sessions will I need?

The length of counselling varies among individuals. Individuals with specific concerns may need fewer sessions, but achieving lasting change often requires a minimum of 6 months of therapy.






It's normal to feel strong emotions when discussing tough topics or trying new behaviours, especially in couples counselling. I’m here to support you, prevent things from spiralling, and ensure your emotional safety during our sessions.

Are there any risks to counselling?

Where are you located?

We are conveniently located at 214-525 Seymour Street, Vancouver, BC V6B 3H6. The office is in the Seymour Building. It’s easily accessible by bus and Skytrain. Street and paid parking can be found nearby.

The A’s to Your Q’s

How long are individual counselling sessions?

Individual sessions are typically 50 minutes. Longer sessions can be made available upon request.

I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Client-Centered, and Emotion-Focused Therapy. My trauma-informed approach focuses on emotions and attachment. I understand how early relationships shape adult dynamics and use emotions to break through stuck patterns, guiding you to understanding and healing.











What approaches do you use?

Do I need my partner to be in Relationship Therapy to get the benefits?

No, you don't need your partner to be in therapy for you to benefit. Therapy can help you work on yourself, which will ultimately improve your relationship. It's also a safe place to explore issues you might not be ready to discuss with your partner, like thinking about separation.





Do you offer premarital counselling?

Yes, I offer premarital counselling. I'm a big believer in early intervention, as it has the highest success rate in couples therapy. My services are tailored to your relationship stage and unique goals.

How is EMDR used in Relationship Counselling?

EMDR in relationship counselling helps couples deal with past issues affecting their relationship. It reduces triggers like relationship anxiety, helping partners respond more thoughtfully. It also assists in processing grief from past relationships, and addresses barriers to intimacy, such as sexual blocks.





Relationship Counselling is for individuals working on themselves—whether to address past relationship baggage, understand patterns, or gain clarity in a current relationship.
Couples Counselling is for committed partners who want to work on their relationship together.

Relationship therapy and relationship counselling are often used interchangeably.

What's the difference between Relationship Therapy and Relationship Counselling?

book a free consult

More Questions?

contact us

Don't hesitate to reach out.

Instagram

Build a relationship you love for years to come 💛

@Alexagelles