Relationship Counselling + Coaching
Relationship support that works for individuals and couples who want better communication, deeper connection, more security, and less conflict.
Teletherapy & In-Person Sessions available in Vancouver, B.C.
Stronger relationships start here
Stuck in the same disagreements and going in circles with your communication?
Are unhealthy relationship patterns getting in the way of the loving, healthy relationship you want, whether you're in a relationship or looking for one?
Maybe you're in the first years of your relationship, looking to strengthen your foundation and confidently take next steps?
Or are you several years in, feeling distant and disconnected, and experiencing frequent communication breakdowns?
Perhaps you're someone who's noticing unhealthy relationship patterns, dealing with past baggage, and struggling with self-esteem?
Wherever you're at, know that you're not alone—far from it, actually!
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Vancouver-based
relationship-obsessed
realistic romantic
I feel you! Trust me, I've been through it
I help individuals and couples navigate relationship challenges using both personal experience and professional expertise.
My goal is to help you break free from unhealthy patterns and build fulfilling, lasting relationships.
With a dedicated team behind me, we combine our knowledge to support meaningful, lasting change—so you can create a life and relationship you love.
so you can fully enjoy your life and build lasting relationships.
Relationships feel so much easier now because I’ve done the work
Say goodbye to endless late-night internet searches or crisis calls to your bestie!
We're committed to making healthy relationship education and support accessible for everyone.
We do things differently
We offer full-spectrum support—from overcoming blocks and building healthy relationships with yourself and others to creating a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.
At Alexa Gelles Counselling, you’ll get the help you need to take your life and relationships from “just fine” to confidently saying, “things are going great!”
Whether through coaching or counselling, we'll help you feel secure in yourself and your relationships, so you can let go of old baggage and fully enjoy your life and relationships.
“There was nothing we did not find helpful! Alexa is wonderful. Her teaching style is very calming and encouraging."
-S&U
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personal.
Couples
Counselling
Ideal for couples wanting to break repetitive conflicts, communicate better, rebuild trust, and deepen intimacy for a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Individual Counselling
Great for individuals who want to break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, make relationship decisions, boost self-esteem, or heal from a breakup.
Relationship
Coaching
Relationship
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Perfect for couples in their early years who want practical tools to build a strong foundation, communicate better, and create a happy, lasting relationship.
1-on-1
programs
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FREE RESOURCES
Communication Guide
Discover 5 simple yet powerful tweaks to transform your communication and create lasting positive change in your relationship.
Stronger Together Blog
Take the guesswork out of relationships with digestible blog posts that show you how to nurture your relationship and break free from unhealthy patterns—without the jargon or overwhelm!
Fairytale Relationship Checklist
Download this free checklist to map out your real-life fairytale relationship and feel ready and excited for your future together.
Relationship-building resources to help you improve communication, manage conflict, and create a strong foundation with your partner.
Q's to Map Out Your
đź’› Address important topics directly to find common ground.
đź’› Get aligned on big picture items, like starting a family, to feel ready and excited for the next steps.
This complete checklist will help you start mapping out your real-life fairytale relationship so you can...
real-life fairytale relationship
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Using the Built to Last Method to Strengthen Your Foundation Have you ever found yourself stuck in the same fight with your partner—over and over again? Whether it starts with something small (like choosing a movie) or bigger topics like parenting or finances, the cycle can be exhausting. You reconnect… only to fall back into […]
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If you’ve ever wondered why something as beautiful as love can feel so hard, you’re not alone. You want connection, but end up in the same arguments. You want closeness, but feel distant. Maybe you’ve tried to figure it out on your own—or told yourself that real love shouldn’t take this much work. Here’s the […]
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Ever catch yourself preparing your response before your partner even finishes speaking? Maybe you’re already crafting a counterpoint, clarifying your intention, or even getting ready to prove you’re right. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Most of us listen to defend rather than to understand—and that’s where communication really starts to break down. The […]
