Alexa Gelles

Relationship Counselling + Coaching

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Relationship Counselling & Coaching for  individuals and couples who want to create a life and relationship they love
-whether they want to build a foundation for a lasting relationship or stop it from falling apart

Teletherapy & In-Person Sessions available in Vancouver, B.C.

You deserve secure and connected relationships,
we can help!

Are you tired of feeling stuck and spinning your wheels trying to figure out your relationships?

Not only do you have to figure things out in relationships by trial and error without guidance, but you might also need to handle your own issues while helping your partner do the same.

Navigating this can feel overwhelming 🤯
But you already know this!

💛 Maybe you're in the first few years of your relationship and want to feel closer and see yourselves as a strong, reliable team.

💛 Perhaps you've been in a relationship for a while, and feel disconnected or need support repairing.

💛 Or maybe, you've noticed unhealthy patterns that's affecting interpersonal relationships and are ready to work through them.

💛 Maybe you're an individual wanting to make a decision about a relationship or are grieving one.


You are capable and worthy of the relationship you've been craving.

I help individuals and couples, like you, navigate relationship challenges by drawing from my personal experiences and professional expertise.

Whether through coaching or counselling, I help you become the best version of yourself, so you can enjoy a fulfilling life and lasting relationships.

Meet Alexa

Nowadays, relationships are so much easier for me because I practice i've done the work.

Here at Alexa Gelles Counselling, we’re committed to making healthy relationship education and support accessible for everyone.

We do things differently

We offer full-spectrum support that covers everything from getting tools to enhance and divorce-proof your relationship to counselling support that addresses the root cause of the problems affecting your relationship with yourself and others.

At Alexa Gelles Counselling, you’ll get the help you need to take your relationship from “just fine” to confidently saying, “things are going great.”

Through coaching or counselling, our services guide you to go from feeling lost and alone to empowered and supported.

“There was nothing we did not find helpful! Alexa is wonderful. Her teaching style is very calming and encouraging."



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Click below to learn more about our offers and services!



Couples Counselling


Ideal for couples seeking to work on their relationship together, whether it's navigating conflict and transitions, repairing trust, or reconnecting. Both virtual and in-person options are available.

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Relationship Counselling for Individuals


Ideal for individuals who need guidance in making relationship decisions, coping with past breakups, addressing unhealthy patterns, managing triggers, and overcoming insecurities.

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Relationship Coaching


Ideal for individuals and couples who are in happy relationships but are noticing cracks and want to be proactive about laying a solid foundation for a happy, long-lasting relationship.

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Watch my Free Masterclass

Watch my free masterclass to see how you can have a real-life fairytale relationship by following my 3-step approach.

Check out the Blog

Easy-to-digest blog posts to help you regularly tend to your relationship and break unhealthy patterns while building confidence, emotional security, and intimacy without the jargon or the overwhelm!

Map out your Real-Life Fairytale Relationship

Get big-picture questions to spark conversations that'll help you feel ready and excited to plan your future together.

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Relationship-building tools to take the guesswork out of communicating, managing differences, and improving intimacy with your partner.

Q's to Map Out Your

💛 Clarify your ideal vision for your relationship to make it a reality.
💛 Address important topics directly to find common ground.
💛 Get aligned on big picture items, like starting a family, to feel ready and excited for the next steps.

This complete checklist will help you start mapping out your real-life fairytale relationship so you can...

    real-life fairytale relationship

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    This blog is about how anxiety can affect relationships and how to deal with it. We’ll talk about how anxiety can make it hard to trust and connect with your partner, especially in the early stages of a relationship. I’ll also share practical tips for better communication and support! 1. How Anxiety Affects Long-Term Relationships […]

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    In the whirlwind of life, building a strong and lasting relationship can be the anchor that keeps us steady through ups and downs. Unfortunately, many of us aren’t equipped with the necessary skills to navigate the complexities of relationships, leading to a high divorce rate. But fear not, as this blog is here to guide […]

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    When people first fall in love, everything feels magical and perfect. That is until the honeymoon stage ends and couples move onto the next stages of the relationship, which can be more challenging. Relationships evolve over time, moving through different stages. Understanding these stages can help couples build a lasting, loving relationship. 1. The Honeymoon […]

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