Alexa Gelles

Relationship Counselling

Navigating Troubles with Online Marriage Counselling

December 9, 2024

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Hey, I’m Alexa! I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor based in Vancouver, B.C. I’ve curated this blog specifically for you to answer your most pressing questions about counselling and building healthy relationships.

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Online marriage counselling is a great way for couples to strengthen their connection and work through challenges. The flexibility of joining sessions from home and fitting them into a busy schedule makes it an easy and accessible option for many.

In this blog, we’ll cover what to keep in mind when starting online counselling and share simple tips to help you get the most out of it.

What is Online Marriage Counselling?

Online marriage counselling allows couples to connect with a therapist through video calls or phone sessions. Instead of travelling to an office, you can work on your relationship from the comfort of your own home.

The biggest benefits? Flexibility and convenience. Whether you need evening sessions after work or just want to avoid a commute, online counselling makes it easier to prioritize your relationship.

Common Challenges and How to Overcome Them

1. Technical Issues

Poor internet connections, unfamiliarity with platforms like Zoom, or device malfunctions can disrupt your sessions.

Solution:

  • Test your internet and devices before sessions.
  • Familiarize yourself with the platform your therapist uses.
  • Have a backup plan, like a phone call, if video doesn’t work.

2. Lack of Personal Connection

Talking through a screen might feel less personal at first, making it harder to build trust with your therapist.

Solution:

  • Choose a therapist experienced in online counselling.
  • Give yourself time—connection often grows after a few sessions.
  • Be open about your feelings and provide feedback to improve the experience.

3. Privacy Concerns

It’s not always easy to find a private space, especially in a shared home, which can make open communication harder.

Solution:

  • Set up a quiet, private space for sessions.
  • Use headphones to keep conversations confidential.
  • Let others in your home know when you need uninterrupted time.

4. Staying Engaged

Distractions at home—like notifications, pets, or household chores—can make it hard to focus.

Solution:

  • Treat your online sessions like in-person ones.
  • Turn off notifications and minimize distractions.
  • Choose a time when you can fully focus.

How to Improve Your Relationship Through Online Counselling

If you’re ready to work on your marriage, here are a few key steps:

  1. Commit to the Process
    Both partners need to show up consistently and be open to trying new strategies suggested by your therapist.
  2. Set Clear Goals
    Work with your therapist to identify specific areas to improve, like communication, trust, or resolving recurring conflicts.
  3. Practice Outside of Sessions
    Counselling gives you tools to improve your relationship, but real progress happens when you apply these skills daily.
  4. Be Patient
    Healing takes time. Stick with the process, celebrate small wins, and stay focused on your shared goals.

Why Online Counselling Works

Online marriage counselling provides couples with the opportunity to rebuild and strengthen their relationship. With patience, commitment, and the right approach, you can overcome challenges and create a healthier, more connected partnership.

While there may be hurdles along the way, addressing them head-on can make the process more effective. By setting clear goals, practicing new skills, and remaining patient, couples can work through issues and deepen their connection.

Even with the occasional challenge, online counselling gives couples the chance to grow closer, resolve conflicts, and build a happier, healthier relationship.

Take the Next Step

Ready to work on your marriage? Visit our couples counselling page to learn more or book a session. Let’s work together to create the strong, happy relationship you deserve!

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